爱的语言（之五）

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爱的语言之五：身体上的亲密接触 —— Physical Touch。

 

人类很早就知道，身体上的亲密接触是交流爱的一种表达方式。研究显示，那些常常被父母抱在怀里，享受拥抱和亲吻的孩子，比那些长期缺少身体上亲密接触的孩子，在情感生活上要健康得多。

聪明睿智的父母，都是善于给予孩子亲密身体接触的父母。在整个婴儿的生长发育阶段，触觉感知对于幼儿的情感和智力的健康发育起着重要的作用。

情侣和夫妻之间，感情是否和谐，身体上是否保持亲密接触是一项重要的衡量指标。

柏拉图式的精神恋爱不是没有，但是那不是普遍存在的两性相处方式，仅仅是特例而已。

 

所以，表达爱意的首选语言，根据Dr. Gary Chapman的总结，共有以下五种：

 

•                   肯定与赞赏 —— Words of Affirmation
•                   共度高品质时光 —— Quality Time
•                   赠送和接收礼物 —— Receiving Gifts
•                   效力行动 —— Acts of Service
•                   身体上的亲密接触 —— Physical Touch

 

请自由选择适合您表达爱意的语言，让您的感情生活和谐美满。

 

 

We have long known that physical touch is a way of communicating emotional love. Numerous research projects in the area of child development have made that conclusion: Babies who are held, hugged, and kissed develop a healthier emotional life than those who are left for long periods of time without physical contact. Wise parents, in any culture, are touching parents.

 

Physical touch is also a powerful vehicle for communicating marital love. Holding hands, kissing, embracing, and sexual intercourse are all ways of communicating emotional love to one’s spouse. For some individuals, physical touch is their primary language. Without it, they feel unloved. With it, their emotional tank is filled, and they feel secure in the love of their spouse.

 

                                                     If your spouse’s primary love language is

                                                 physical touch, nothing is more important than

                                                                 holding her as she cries.

 

 

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